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From YouTube: W18 Gravity WG: When you can have whatever you want, the important question is: what do you want?
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A
There's
also
always
going
to
be
like
coordination
issues
there.
So
also,
we
all
have
like
personal
issues
and
life
is
so
chaotic
that
it's
good
for
for
for
those
looking
for,
for
the
resilience
to
to
talk
openly
about
conflict,
to
teach
and
to
train
their
members
to
to
manage
conflict,
and
also
we
are
trying
to
build
like
a
force.
A
And
that
is
the
the
the
process
that
we
foster
in
in
gravity.
The
idea
is
to
be
able
to
incorporate
the
other
one,
the
other
positions,
and
to
look
and
like
for
for
agreements
not
not
seen
as
a
as
a
single
through
truth
or
seen
as
or
seeing
one
point
of
view
as
a
single
truth,
but
but
more
seeing
on
agreements
on
what
suits
the
best
for
everyone
and
and
and
yeah
that
that
is
like
the
the
the
main
idea
behind
behind
gravity.
A
A
A
So,
as
I
said
in
the
in
the
community
called
question,
this
was
a
question
that
I
that
that
I
brought
that
I
that
came
into
my
mind
yesterday
and
when
you
can
have
whatever
you
want.
The
important
question
is:
what
do
you
want,
and
I
I
I
was
thinking
on
this
because
I
was
talking
with
my
brother
and
he
told
me
like
hey.
A
We
are
always
like
clear
to
what
is
our
goal
and
that
we,
when
maybe
we
are
in
distress
or
something
like
disturbs
us,
from
achieving
our
goals
that
we
can
always
have
in
in
our
mind
like
where
do
we
want
to
be
so
that
our
actions
lead
us
that
way
and
so
that
we
can
also
reflect
on
what
actions
like
take
us
away
from
that
goals
that
we
have
so
yeah?
The
the
question
is:
what
do
you
want
like
like?
You
can
have
whatever
you
want,
but
what
do
you
want?
A
And
it's
not
an
easy
question
because
like
yeah,
sometimes
we
want
a
lot
of
things
and
or
sometimes
we
think
that
it's
too
difficult
to
to
to
to
get
what
we
want
and
instead
of
thinking
what
we
want.
We
think
of
the
obstacles
of
getting
in
into
that.
But
right
now,
instead
of
thinking
in
into
obstacles,
try
to
think
in
just
one
big
thing.
A
I
I
say
this
because
I
have
also
been
listening
a
lot
to
the
song
of
bob
marley
this
that
is
called
war
that
it
that
he
says
like
when,
when
the
philosophy,
that's
that
states
that
one
man
is
superior
to
another
is
abandoned
until
that
moment,
every
everywhere
is
war
and
yeah,
so
more
or
less.
I
think
I
think
so
in
that
way
like
when,
until
we
stop
exploiting
each
other,
like
there's
gonna
be
a
lot
of
conflicts.
A
A
A
Context
that
we
are
around-
and
I
want
my
context-
the
context
around
me-
to
be
full
of
love
to
be
full
of
forgiveness
and
that's
something
that
starts
with
me.
But
that's
that
that's
also
the
things
that
I
that
I
will
be
able
to
see
around
me
so
yeah.
I
I
answered
the
question.
I
hope
you
liked
it
and
I
will
I
will
pass
it
to
livy.
A
B
C
No,
I
can't
hear
like
we
can't
hear
you.
No,
I
can't
hear
you
he
says
here
I'll
just
take
it
really
quick,
it's
really
hard.
This
is
a
huge
question
and
I'm
not
going
to
go
as
existential
as
a
lot
of
you
guys.
Honestly,
I
just
want
to
learn
to.
I
want
to
be
able
to
learn
as
much
from
the
pvc
hatch
as
possible
so
that
we
can
launch
more
commons
and
in
a
better
way
right
like
this.
C
I
do
think
this
hatch
is
going
to
be
awesome,
but
I
just
really
want
to
make
sure
that
we
are
set
up
to
learn
as
much
as
possible
from
this
first
one
so
that
we
can
achieve
it's
kind
of
the
first
step
in
achieving
like.
Oh
hey.
People
who
create
value
for
society
can
be
rewarded
through
economic
models
right,
and
so
that's
just
the
first
step
I'll
pass
it
to
chewie.
D
Thank
you,
griff.
I
think
it's
a
very
interesting
question
to
ask,
after
also
like
after
the
epidemic,
because
pretty
much
every
one
of
us
like
like
asked
this,
this
question
like
over
and
over
and
it
kept
changing
and-
and
I
think
that
everybody
like
slowly
starts
like
getting
into
like
a
a
new
like
in
redefined
path.
D
That
pretty
much
is
like
with
what
we
have
and-
and
I
think
it's
it's
that's
something
really
really
like
beautiful
to
see
like
a
a
a
really
beautiful
change,
and
I
guess
I
I
I
would
like
what
what
I
want
this
like
to
never
like
stop
like
learning
stuff,
just
like,
like,
like
riff,
said
like
with
with
learning
about
this
hatch,
but
just
like
in
in
in
general.
I
think
there's
always
like
a
clear
before
and
after
when
a
person
decides
that
he
or
she
knows
enough.
D
Already.
It's
like.
I
don't
know
like
it's,
it's
something,
it's
something
that
also
like
sometimes
catches
you
like
from
from
behind
and
and
yeah
like
I,
I
I
try
to
keep
that
idea
present
and
I
would
also
like
libby
like
when,
when
she
says
that
never
lose
an
ability,
I
would
add
to
that
to
never
lose
an
ability
to
surprise
yourself
and
what
you
can
always
achieve.
D
E
E
I
feel
very
inadequate
because
I
don't
have
enough
time
to
do
everything
that
I
want
to
do
so,
for
example,
right
now
I
it's
like
all
of
what
you
all
are
saying.
I
want
to
be
learning.
I
want
to
commit
so
much
time
to
all
the
learning,
but
at
the
same
time
I
I
have
to
be
a
parent
and
it's
like
I
can
be
in
two
places
at
one
time
and
it
creates
this
feeling
of
inadequacy.
E
So
I
guess
probably,
if
I
meditate
on
this,
I
can
come
up
with
a
more
positive
spin
on
my
answer.
But
for
now
that's
that's
my
honest
feeling.
So
I
guess
some
of
what
you
were
saying
juan
carlos,
like,
if
I
can
sort
of
slow
down
and
be
grateful,
I
mean
gratitude,
is,
is
probably
something
I
can
put
on
the
table
in
this
answer
and
and
lately
I've
been
thinking
a
lot
about
the
the
what's
the
word.
E
The
mantra
that
I
I
get
to
do
something
as
opposed
to
I
have
to
do
something,
so
I
get
to
be
part
of
the
tec.
It's
extraordinary
and
like
my
gratitude,
for
that
is
enormous,
and
I
get
to
be
a
single
parent.
I
get
to
be
a
parent.
I
get
to
you
know
right
before
our
community
call
tonight.
I
was
like
running
around
outside
playing
tag
for
an
hour
and
yeah,
so
so
I
leave
it
at
that.
Maybe
I
somehow
I
I
if
I
could
have
anything
I
wanted.
E
F
Yes,
thanks
for
that,
katie
that
that's
quite
inspiring,
I'm
also,
I
feel
a
little
bit
overwhelmed
by
the
magnitude
of
the
question
you
know
which
is
so
easily
asked
and
then,
if
you
turn
inside
and
actually
like,
let
it
sink
into
you
like
on
these
various
levels.
You
know
that
that
we
all
are
as
human
beings
and
and
you
get
multiple
answers
from
these
various
layers.
F
You
know
my
body
wants,
wants
safety
and
belonging
and
wants
wants
respect,
and
these
are
quite
quite
connected
to
what
you
could
select
ego
drives
and
and
and
then
there's
like
the
non-self
self,
selfish
or
self-conscious
part.
Maybe
that
you
know
goes
to
these
higher
wishes
and
once
I
don't
know,
an
enlightened
society
again
like
I
was
also
touched
by.
I
think
it
was
true
who
said
like
this
non-rivalrous
or
no.
F
It
was
you
juan
who
doesn't
want
to
live
in
a
system
that
makes
people
sick
and
mentally
ill,
and
you
know
a
world
that
is
basically
free
of
suffering
and
and
yeah.
I
think
I
think,
I'm
all
of
a
sudden.
What
comes
up
is
this.
This
sentence
that
I
was
taught
when
I
was
doing
a
was
called
a
a
a
course
on
soul
and-
and
I
hope
I'm
paraphrasing
it
correctly,
but
it
was
it
was
about
like
your
purpose
or
your
soul's
purpose.
F
Is
you
know
where
your
deepest
gladness
and
the
world's
needs
meet,
and
I
think
actually
that
is
quite
a
good
heuristic
for
learning
to
know
what
to
want.
You
know
because
that's
a
real
journey,
it's
a
real
skill,
it's
a
it
means
cutting
through
all
your
delusions,
basically
and
and
it's
hard
because
you
know
I
mean
if
I
look
at
my
previous
relationships.
F
F
F
G
Yeah,
it
is
so
like
physically.
What
I
want
is
a
couch
and
a
new
car,
but
I'm
not
sure
what
I
want
so
and
now
it's
a
blood
bath,
so
the
new
car's
on
hold,
I
actually
ordered
a
couch
on
ebay
and
the
order
got
cancelled
and
my
money's
getting
refunded
and
I
have
a
big
empty
living
room
that
needs
a
couch
and
as
far
as
real
things
go,
I
want
to
be
more
patient.
G
I've
been,
I
am
more
patient
than
I
used
to
be
so
I
know
that
it's
working
and
I
want
to
be
more
thoughtful
and
gentle.
In
my
speech
I
would
like
to
get
the
same
points
across
that
I
do,
but
in
a
more
thoughtful
and
gentle
way,
because,
like
I
just
like
kicked
myself
for
days
after
I'm
obnoxious
and
I
apologize-
and
I
have
no
idea
to
whom
to
pass.
I
Yeah
I
can
take
it.
Thank
you.
I've
been
thinking
this
whole
time
and
I
don't
know
what
I
want,
but
what
I
don't
want
is
lose
motivation,
because
you
know
when
you
don't
have
a
motive
to
do
something
some
stuff.
So
then
you
are,
you
know
poor,
and
I
mean
I
know
not
depressed,
but
I
don't
know
like
yeah
for
me.
It's
really
important
to
be
motivated.
It
doesn't
matter
what
you're
motivated
for
but
be
motivated
and
do
something
and
yeah
I'll
pass
it
to
her.
J
Hello
yeah
first
off
I
I
love
like
the
nature
of
this
question.
This
is
a
wonderful
thing
to
experience
in
my
first
like
actual
tech
session.
So
that's
that's
nice.
I
appreciate
that
and
when
I,
when
I
think
of
this
question
I
actually
think
back
to
when
I
was
20
years
old
and
it
was
the
day
of
my
20th
birthday,
and
I
remember
I
was
working
landscaping
at
that
time
and
in
the
morning
at
7
00
am
it
was
on
my
birthday.
I
was
still
working.
J
J
I
learned
a
lot
and
I'm
really
happy
about
that
and
every
year
since
then,
on
my
birthday,
I've
had
the
absolute
pleasure
of
being
able
to
say
just
that,
just
that
I'm
proud
of
what
I've
done
for
the
past
year
and
that
I'm
excited
for
what
the
next
year
has
to
come,
because
I
know
that
I'm
confident
I
could
try
my
best
and
I'm
confident
that
I
could
grow.
So
if
I
were
to
have
something
that
I
would
want
just
kind
of
like
what
do
I
want.
J
A
Shared
well
yeah,
as
I
told
you
yesterday,
this
question
came
into
my
mind
and
like
what
do
I
want,
and
the
question,
and-
and
the
answer
that
I
received
also,
is
that
you
already
have
what
you
want
so
so
we
already
have
what
we
want.
We
have
chosen
to
be
here.
We
have
chosen
our
problems.
We
have
chosen
our
our
our
our
vulnerabilities.
A
We
have
chosen
our
strengths
we
have
chosen
like
lately.
I
have
been
having
like
more
more
and
more
this,
this
thinking
that,
like
nothing,
is
just
casuality
and
that
it's
great
that
that
that
we're
just
here
I
mean
we-
we
have
chosen
to
be
here.
We
have
chosen
to
to
to
get
get
up
and
we
have
chosen
for
the
past
for
all
of
our
life,
the
actions
that
that
that
we
want
to
reproduce
and
the
actions
that
we
want
to
to
to
materialize
in
our
life.
A
I
have
been
doing
this
because
this
is
what
I
wanted,
and
I
have
this
now,
because
this
is
what
I
wanted
and
shifting
that
that
mindset
helps
us,
because
we
sometimes
ask
ourselves
like.
Why
are
we
here
like
what
brought
us
to
this
position
or
when
something
that
we
don't
want
to
happen
happens
we
we,
we
ask
like
yeah
why
this
did.
Why
did
this
conflict
happen
or
why?
A
Why
did
I
crashed
with
with
with
that
boulder
and
and
what
I,
what
I
think
in
my
deepest
feelings
is
that
yeah,
like
we,
we
always
materialize
what
what
we
need
and
life
is
just
so
amazing
that
it
always
shows
us
like
and
and
presents
to
us
a
a
way
to
to
keep
learning
and
and
and
to
keep
asking
and
to
keep
materializing
and
like
what
we
want
and
like
yeah.
It's
amazing
to
hear
what,
like
your
different
points
of
view
and
and
we
are
constantly
having
what
we
want.
A
A
Like
for
me,
it's
it's
difficult
to
put
it
into
words,
but
but
it's
like
a
something
that
that
helps
us
to
to
feel
relieved,
because
we
we
we
understand
that
we
are
materializing
our
reality
and
that
the
things
that
we
see
are
the
things
that
we
want
to
see
and
and
when,
when
we
are
like
thinking
that
way,
we
don't
like
ask:
why
are
yeah?
Why
are
things
happening
and
and
like
for
for?
A
I
don't
want
to
get
too
mystic
into
this,
but
but
but
yeah
we
we
have
what
we
want
so
so
the
important
question
is:
what
do
you
want
and
if
you
are
able
to
want,
then
you
are
able
to
have
if
you
are
able
to
want
something
you
are
able
to
have
it.
So
what
that?
What
do
you
want
to
build
in
your
life
and
stu,
and
and
always
having
this
like
long
long
term
scope?
A
A
I
don't
want
to
get
too
mystical,
but
that
was
like
the
the
reflection
that
I
wanted
to
make
of
this,
like
whatever
you
want
with
all
your
heart
you're
going
to
have
it
so
always
try
to
be
clear
on
what
you
want
and
and
want
it
really,
because,
maybe
you
you
are
not
like
yeah
conscious
of
what
we
want
of
what
you
want,
and
you
may
also
be
getting
something
different
for
what
you
initially
intended.
So
so
yeah
yeah.
A
A
This
is
a
this
is
a
survey
that
we
want
to
to
promote
within
different
dows,
so
that
we
can
get
to
know
what
are
the
needs
related
to
conflict
management
in
daos
and
also
what
are
the
the
mental
models
or
the
habits
or
techniques
that
are
like
repeated
or
promoted
to
to
maintain
positive
relationships?
What
are
the
common
sources
of
conflicts?
So
you
can?
A
You
can
feel
it,
and
we,
we
made
some
hypothesis
about
this
in
a
hack
session
like
two
weeks
ago,
but
it
would
be
good
if
we
can
like
go
over
them
once
again,
so
that
we
can
finalize
the
the
the
survey
and
start
distributing
it.
We
also
like
made
a
list
of
the
first
five
dollars
that
we
want
to
to
tackle
with
this
survey
that
are
the
tec.
A
Common
stack,
give
it
one.
Half
and
metagame
are
the
first
doubts
that
we
want
to
apply
the
survey
that
are
to
see
like
yeah.
What
are
the
needs
related
to
conflict
management?
How
what
are
the
main
sources
of
conflict
like?
How
does
people
react
when
they
see
a
conflict
and
yeah
these?
These
are
the
first,
so
yeah.
A
So
the
the
hypothesis
that
we
were
making
the
these
are
the
type
of
hypothesis
that
nate
suggested
that
are
directional
non-directional
null
statistical
and
declarative
and
yeah.
The
first
question
is
which
decentralized
organization
and
our
community
have
you
participated
in
that
is
declarative.
That
is
that,
and
the
hypothesis
is,
members
have
participated
in
at
least
one
or
more
decentralized
organizations,
members
of
people
that
feel
the
survey.
A
This
is
also
the
it
has
two
hypotheses,
and
the
declarative
is
that
decentralized
communities
promote
at
least
one
mental
model
or
other
technique
to
foster
positive
relationships
and
directional
is
that
there
is
a
positive
relationship
between
the
number
of
mental
models,
habits
or
techniques
that
the
community
promotes
and
the
frequency
of
conflicts.
Experiences
experienced
or.
A
A
A
A
A
And
the
hypothesis
behind
this
is
that
there
are
different
difficulties
in
managing
the
diverse
conflict.
We
want
to
know
what
is
the
individual
perception
perception
of
the
most
challenging
conflicts
and
if
we
could
identify
common
points
to
improve
the
gravity
process,
I
think
this
is
a
statistical.
A
A
A
A
A
Maybe
that
would
be
something
to
work
on,
because
the
best
reaction
is
is
not
like
to
negate
feelings
or
to
or
to
avoid
them,
but
to
be
able
to
to
talk
about
them
to
face
them
and
also
to
to
be
able
to
to
understand
that
when
conflict
arrives
arises,
it's
not
something
that
it's
unnatural
or
it's
something
that
or
it's
something
that
we
should
feel
like
like
that,
that
we
shouldn't
talk
about
it
or
or
that.
Maybe
it's
something
awkward
so
yeah.
A
A
A
A
A
A
This
question
is
because
there
are
communities
that
are
big
enough
to
have
gravitons
like
the
tc,
but
there
are
communities
that
are
small
and
that
they
cannot
afford
to
have
gravitons
on
their
own.
So
the
idea
is
to
also
to
be
able
to
provide
the
graviton
service
to
communities
who
are
not
big
enough
to
to
have
gravitons
on
their
own,
and
maybe
that
that
would
lead
for
them
to
to
to
yeah
to
request
support
from
from
trained
peers
among
other
communities.
H
Sweet,
okay,
I'm
sorry
I've
been
trying
to
get
this
to
work
for
a
minute.
I
was
just
going
to
say
that
you
know
this.
The
survey
is
is
intended
to
be
an
exploratory
survey
for
the
first
one,
and
then
we
intend
to
have
follow-up
surveys
within
so
the
hypothesis
is
kind
of
a
sense-making
process
to
to
to
guide
our
survey
further.
H
Once
we
get
results
and
say:
okay,
you
know
yeah
either
it
satisfied
that
hypothesis
or
not,
and
then
we
can
build
build
onto
it
to
see
what
other
dow
communities
really
need
within
their
within
their
organizations.
So
sorry
to
interrupt.
I
just
wanted
to
throw
that
out
there
and
thank
goodness
this
works
again.