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From YouTube: La ComunicaciĆ³n Efectiva
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A
How
can
we
discuss
effective
communication
with
my
son?
The
medical
presenter
and
Hector
are
here
to
share
some
tips
or
suggestions
that
help
us
have
effective.
Communication.
The
question
is:
how
can
I
encourage
effective
communication
with
my
son,
communication
is
essential
and
communication
often
becomes
the
root
of
problems
and
conflicts.
A
There
are
four
categories
of
passive
communication.
This
occurs
when
the
communication
is
not
clear,
which
can
cause
us
to
be
emotionally
dishonest
but
being
naive,
very
indirect
and
guilty,
which
makes
us
sound
like
we
blame
others.
Basically,
the
thinking
is
other
people's
rights
and
needs
matter
more
than
mine.
A
Next
comes
the
category
of
aggressive
communication.
This
style
of
communication
can
be
too
honest.
Direct
controlling
negative
and
abusive
can
really
cause
negative
feelings.
Now,
when
we
combine
these
two
styles
results
like
that
communication,
passive
or
aggressive.
This
occurs
when
you
don't
really
say
what
you
want
and
feel,
but
you
are
also
aggressive.
A
Finally,
we
have
what
is
called
assertive
communication.
This
occurs
when
you
can
honestly
say
what
you
are
thinking
and
feeling
without
hurting
other
people's
feelings.
It
is
A
more
empathetic
form
of
communication.
We
have
to
be
able
to
work
from.
This
is
easy,
affective
communication,
since
this
style,
as
the
case
of
is
ideal,
because
we
can
communicate
in
an
affective
and
respectful
way.
A
When
we
communicate,
it
is
important
to
practice
what
affirmations
are,
how
I
feel
when
we
practice
communicating
in
this
way,
we
are
setting
an
example,
a
model
that
our
children
can
learn
and
emulate
in
their
lives
beginning
the
practice
of
using
affirmations.
How
I
feel
when
our
children
are
young
is
an
excellent
strategy
to
prepare
children
to
use
assertive
communication,
a
example
would
be,
I
feel,
because
and
when
it
happens,
I
feel,
for
example,
would
be
what
I
need
is.
A
When
one
is
using
the
words,
I
feel
it
creates
a
sense
of
control
and
ownership
affirms
the
fact
that
we
are
the
masters
of
our
own
emotions
and
we
are
in
control
that
sense
of
control
eliminates
passive,
aggressive
communication
siva
and
encourages
more
affective
communication.
The
arts
recordings
of
I
feel
or
I
are
super
fantastic
and
I
recommend
that
you
result
in
the
upbringing
and
communication
with
your
children
with
your
friends.
Family
couples
and
I
also
advise
you
to
share
this
strategy
with
your
children.
A
A
This
is
an
excellent
strategy
to
use
with
children,
because
when
your
children
are
raising
their
voice
can
tell
them.
You
can
lower
the
volume
of
your
voice
a
bit,
because
I
really
want
to
be
able
to
understand
you.
Can
you
speak
more
softly
for
the
child?
That
is
a
sign
that
someone
is
listening.
We
all
want
to
be
heard
where
we
are
depending
on
the
environment.
We
must
pay
attention
to
where
we
are
to
see
if
the
environment
or
place
is
appropriate
for
the
communication
style
by
example.
A
If
a
child
needs
to
ask
their
head
teacher
or
coach
something,
we
should
teach
the
child
the
right
place
and
time
to
do.
It
is
the
right
time
during
practice,
when
other
kids
are
learning
something
after
class.
It
is
very
important
to
be
aware
of
the
place
and
the
situation
you
are
in
when
you
are
talking
to
your
child
and
teach
them
the
place,
the
appropriate
time
to
communicate.
A
A
How
is
our
behavior
serious
attitude
or
is
it
fun?
It
is
super
important
to
recognize
the
signals
or
tone
of
communication
so
that
everyone
can
respect
and
be
respected.
What
kind
of
language
we
use
that
words
we
use
remember
we
want
to
use
the
affirmations
tions.
I
feel,
and
I
have
three
principles
of
effective
communication
that
we
want
to
teach
our
children
first
say
no
is
an
expression
that
is
considered
a
complete
sentence.
Children
should
know
that
when
someone
tells
them,
it
cannot
be.
That
person
needs
respect
just
like
when
they
themselves
say
no.
A
Secondly,
ask
permission
or
consult
someone
before
making
an
emotional
discharge
with
that
person.
It
is
key.
It
is
important
to
ask
first,
for
example,
you
have
the
ability
to
listen
to
something
serious
before
starting
the
conversation.
It
is
important
to
be
aware
of
the
capacity
of
others
that
serves
to
be
aware
of
your
child's
mental
state
or
your
mental
capacity,
so
that
communication
is
appropriate
and
respectful
to
know
if
they
are,
or
we
are
tired
or
hungry.